The Easiest Way to Meditate

Many people think meditation is complicated or difficult, but it’s not. It’s literally as simple as breathing, and a good place to begin meditating is with a one-minute meditation repeated throughout the day.

At a retreat I attended years ago, I was introduced to the one-minute meditation through the tolling of the Mindfulness Bell.

At random times throughout each day, when someone sounded a bell, we all had to stop what we were doing and take three slow, abdominal breaths.

Whenever the bell rang during the retreat, we halted in mid-sentence, mid-stride, mid-chew, as if we were in a big game of freeze tag. At first this interruption annoyed me. I was in the midst of spiritual evolution, damn it! But by the time the retreat ended, I’d embraced these “interruptions.”

When you take an abdominal breath, your belly goes out when you inhale and in when you exhale, the opposite of how many of us breathe. The result is slower, deeper, more concentrated, more efficient respiration. The popular term for it is belly breathing.

If you’re unfamiliar with belly breathing, you can practice by lying down on a bed or couch and putting one hand on your belly. Close your eyes and breathe naturally. Notice how your belly rises with each intake of breath and falls as you breathe out. This is the way babies breathe.

At the retreat, each time the bell sounded, I was able to stop what I was doing, saying, or thinking. Then I could do a reset. With each slow breath, I asked myself, Do I need to be thinking or feeling what I’m thinking and feeling? Do I want to do what I am about to do? Learning to be still in the midst of life, even briefly, helped me reevaluate these choices.

I have often recommended this three-breath meditation to clients, suggesting that they use any interrupting sound, such as a car horn or a phone’s ringing, as a substitute for the Mindfulness Bell.

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One client whose life was ruled by chaos found this practice to be more valuable than anything else we’d done in therapy. At a street corner on the way to work, hearing the Mindfulness Bell of a car horn, she could think, “I don’t really want to waste my time partying tonight.” About to leave for a bar, pausing on the first ring of her cell phone, she could see how the evening would play out and decide, “Not this time.” Hearing a siren blare in the midst of pangs of guilt or shame, she could choose to forgive herself.

An anxious client found a Mindfulness Bell app for his smartphone and programmed it to sound a gong randomly throughout the day. He was often on the road for his job, and while driving, his mind inevitably went to worrying. When the gong sounded, he took three breaths and allowed himself to return to a more centered place. Over time, not only did his anxiety lessen, but he started to tune in to his true desires and made major positive changes in his career and relationships.

I also continue this practice. When I step into my office and turn on my computer, I hear its Mindfulness Bell beep, reminding me to pause for a moment and assume my best self. Brief meditations throughout the day help me shift gears between clients, return to center, and reinhabit that best self again and again.

More anon,
– David
David J. Bookbinder

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8 thoughts on “
The Easiest Way to Meditate

  1. Thank you, David. I’m going to listen for the daily sound interruptions in my life and use them as you’ve suggested to meditate. If I find that difficult to focus in on, then I’ll try to find a random bong sound and keep it active on my phone. This also reminds me of mindful walking, where you tune into the sounds in your environment; not on the act of walking with alot of stressful everyday thoughts running through your mind.Thanks again.

  2. This message about one-minute meditation is incredibly helpful. Thank you so much, David, for sending it. You lend so much life to the examples and anecdotes that you give!

  3. THQ 4 this little trick. a very Good one indeed.

    Btw,i hav founded “Ambe Yog”: Earth Yog: vr i breathe abdominal/oceanic every morning w this wonderful tree: SonaMai.

    i play the Music o the Plants 2 her…

  4. Wow! I needed that. I’ve been trying to get back into regular meditation and this is just the jump start I needed. Thank you once again for hitting the nail on the head. Hum……………

  5. I’ve read this chapter before as a word for word proofreader, but I’m happy to be reminded to look at it now for its content—and try to summon “and reinhabit that best self again and again.” Thank you so much DJB for adding something so positive to each day.

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